Today’s circle of friends and mothers have been swept by a video: there was a flood somewhere. A mother was standing on the bridge with her 1-year-old baby in her arms and taking a mobile phone to photograph the flood. She accidentally fell the child into the water and was washed away by the flood…
See the mother crying on the ground in the video! In addition to pain or pain!
However, it is not the first tragedy that parents play with mobile phones and lead to children’s accidents.
Incident 1: Parents Play Mobile Phone Outside the House, Baby Suffocation in Swimming Pool for 72 Seconds
On May 16, 2017, a baby under 2 years old accidentally turned into the water while swimming in the unattended baby swimming pool, causing a suffocating 72 seconds. The parents had been playing with their mobile phones outside the house. Fortunately, the mother saw the child drowning at the last moment and rushed into the swimming pool to save the child.
Incident 2: 4-year-old child drowned in swimming pool, mother playing with mobile phone 2 meters away,
On January 3, 2017, Ms. Xiao of Xi ‘an took her 6-year-old daughter and her son under 4 years old to play in the hot spring world. Her 4-year-old son drowned in the swimming pool, and her mother was playing with her mobile phone two meters away without knowing…
Incident 3: Parents are playing with their mobile phones while watching their children, and their children are run over by the car in the community.
On April 23, 2016, when 2-year-old Han Han was playing on the road in the community, his parents were watching his cell phone. Xiao Han Han was standing in the blind area of the driver’s vision. The unwitting driver drove the car and ran over the child.
Incident 4: The child fell and died while playing on the escalator, and the mother was unaware of it while playing on her mobile phone.
On April 9, 2015, a 6-year-old girl went shopping with her parents in Shandong province. She accidentally slipped and fell from the escalator on the second floor, causing her head to die. While her mother was fiddling with her cell phone beside the elevator, she didn’t find out the accident until the child fell.
Incident 5: Dad indulges in cell phones, while his daughter falls from the third floor and is seriously injured.
A 3-year-old daughter in Zhejiang was playing at home after dinner. The father who was looking after the child was only playing with his cell phone. It was not until Grandma finished washing the bowl and looked for her granddaughter that she found out when the child fell from the windowsill on the third floor. She suffered from multiple comminuted skull fractures and serious intracranial hemorrhage.
These accidents are caused by the negligence of the caretakers in the game venues, the imperfection of the safety measures in the shopping malls, the responsibility of the drivers who caused the accident, and the hidden danger that the family protection is not in place.
But there is a deadly killer, that is, parents look at mobile phones.
Don’t let mobile phones become [culprits] that hurt children.
According to research data from the Child Accident Prevention Trust (CAPT), a British charity, 24% of the parents interviewed admitted that they had played with their mobile phones and their children were nearly in distress or lost.
CAPT has warned that [when you are addicted to mobile phones, you are putting your children in danger].
Although there is no such data in China, let’s recall whether there have been times when children were almost put in danger because they watched and played with mobile phones.
Children are at a high incidence of safety accidents until they are 5 years old. During this period, as the children’s closest parents, try not to let the children alone, try not to let the children out of their sight, let alone let the mobile phone take away our attention from the children.
If parents really have important but important things, they should look at their cell phones while taking care of their children. Suggestions:
1. Try to have someone with you to take care of the children and replace the care with you;
2. Ensure that children can be in a safe environment.
But look back, how important can it be?
Is it really more important than the safety of children to return to WeChat less, send a circle of friends later and answer the phone five minutes later?
Sometimes, negligence is on the front line, but it will lead to lifelong regret.
Don’t let mobile phones rob parents of their love for their children.
In addition to safety, playing with mobile phones to accompany children is also a kind of cold violence to children.
A few days ago, I talked to Mr. Qin Nan about a case of psychological counseling for primary school students, which was very heart-rending.
The son just started primary school and was especially rebellious. The father brought his son to do psychological counseling. When asked how the father and son were related:
Dad: I play with him every day and spend time on him almost every day.
Child: My father seldom accompanies me. He always plays with his cell phone and watches the computer beside me.
Playing with a mobile phone to accompany a child, this kind of ineffective company [not wandering heart] will make the child feel more frustrated than not having time to accompany the child.
The direct damage to children is: parents love mobile phones more, and mobile phones are more important than me.
The furthest distance in the world is not that children grow up and drift away from you. It’s that children are watching you while you are watching your cell phone.
We always feel that the child is still young, and we spend more time with the child. The matter at hand is more important, [wait, wait].
However, the growth of children is a matter of an instant. When you look back and think of playing with children one day, perhaps the world of children no longer needs you. Yes, they are used to not being accompanied by you.
Let’s put down our cell phones to accompany our children so that tragedy will not happen again.
Let’s put down our cell phones to accompany our children and give them 100% love.